But when I started working with her regularly, things changed. She didn’t have to repeat herself or wonder if I’d remember what time she liked her breakfast. The little things, like her preference for Earl Grey with a dash of milk or her habit of reading a chapter of her favorite book after lunch, became natural parts of our routine. We built trust, and over time, that consistency made a huge difference to her well-being.

The beauty of providing care this way is that it feels less like running through a checklist and more like creating a rhythm that works for the person in front of me. With the continuity of care that my work buddy and I provide, we’re not just attending to immediate needs — we’re creating a space where our clients feel seen, heard, and understood. And isn’t that what care should be?

So, if you’re thinking about what makes self-employed care so unique, remember this: it’s not just about doing a job. It’s about building relationships that enhance lives. And the consistency of knowing it’s always us — me or my buddy — is what allows us to do just that.

Join the movement of carers who know that true care is more than just tasks — it’s about connection.